after looking at my disheveled appearance - all oz mid-calf uggies, betty-boop pj bottoms, crazy cream n black patterned jumper, this mornings mostly gone-make up and hair hastily pulled up in a messy bun, i thort to myself, how can any1 find this look hot? men always say (*note, who are these people that ask men what they say??) that they love the look of a woman at home in her pj's more then a woman dressed up to the 9's in heels and a mini.. perhaps those men expected cute little play-boy slippers, matching pj's, a clean make-up free face and nice hair out cascading down a woman's shoulders..
What is it that attracts us to the opposite sex? why is it, that when fundamentally we are all the same, we are all attracted to different things? is it really that we are all attracted to 'good looking' people, but those who are not as attractive as others know that 'punching above their weight' can b futile, so settle for less? why is it that some men are boobs men, and others butts? y is it that some women go for the eyes first, others smile? personally i am a smile kinda-gurl.. give me a big goofy grin and uv won half the battle! my close girlfriends know what i have a secret affiliation for (secret meaning its NOT going to b posted on this blog) but even i have to question that this thing - why the HELL its what does it for me, and where did it come from?
Is it a pre-historic urge that i am attracted to this element of a person? I know that this isnt a sign of strength, either physically or genetically, its not some biological urge that i have to procreate strong healthy babies, its just something that for some god-forsaken reason, attracts me to someone instantly, or at least makes me do a double take... (*got u all guessing now eh)
u google enough words and ull get enough crazy answers... so according to the world wide web that ecompas's so much 'knowledge' the things we look for in the opposite sex are - scent (ah, not as in perfume), money, biological urge (perhaps even if there are those of us in denial about it), looks, personality, lifestyle, religion, values - i could give u the 332,000 answers that were found in .03 of a second - but ill spare you all... i guess in a way, i have just answered my own question... anything and everything can and does attract the opposite sex... at different times in our lives, we are searching for different things... our beliefs, needs etc change as we grow older, and so does what we search for in others...
it was worrying to note tho - in my many searches, one common theme occurred... advice, products and information on how a woman can 'keep' a man...
aren't they the ones who should be 'keeping' us... after all... we're the ones who after the man-loves-a-woman-very-very-much scenario, have to house mini-mankind inside our own body's and nurture, grow and love them from pregnancy and birth, raise them safely, send them out into the big bad world, and still have time for the career, the cooking and the cleaning, while the 'dominant' male in the household is out floundering around that goofy smile that caught your eye in the first place...???
hhhhmmm...
x
What is it that attracts us to the opposite sex? why is it, that when fundamentally we are all the same, we are all attracted to different things? is it really that we are all attracted to 'good looking' people, but those who are not as attractive as others know that 'punching above their weight' can b futile, so settle for less? why is it that some men are boobs men, and others butts? y is it that some women go for the eyes first, others smile? personally i am a smile kinda-gurl.. give me a big goofy grin and uv won half the battle! my close girlfriends know what i have a secret affiliation for (secret meaning its NOT going to b posted on this blog) but even i have to question that this thing - why the HELL its what does it for me, and where did it come from?
Is it a pre-historic urge that i am attracted to this element of a person? I know that this isnt a sign of strength, either physically or genetically, its not some biological urge that i have to procreate strong healthy babies, its just something that for some god-forsaken reason, attracts me to someone instantly, or at least makes me do a double take... (*got u all guessing now eh)
u google enough words and ull get enough crazy answers... so according to the world wide web that ecompas's so much 'knowledge' the things we look for in the opposite sex are - scent (ah, not as in perfume), money, biological urge (perhaps even if there are those of us in denial about it), looks, personality, lifestyle, religion, values - i could give u the 332,000 answers that were found in .03 of a second - but ill spare you all... i guess in a way, i have just answered my own question... anything and everything can and does attract the opposite sex... at different times in our lives, we are searching for different things... our beliefs, needs etc change as we grow older, and so does what we search for in others...
it was worrying to note tho - in my many searches, one common theme occurred... advice, products and information on how a woman can 'keep' a man...
aren't they the ones who should be 'keeping' us... after all... we're the ones who after the man-loves-a-woman-very-very-much scenario, have to house mini-mankind inside our own body's and nurture, grow and love them from pregnancy and birth, raise them safely, send them out into the big bad world, and still have time for the career, the cooking and the cleaning, while the 'dominant' male in the household is out floundering around that goofy smile that caught your eye in the first place...???
hhhhmmm...
x
2 comments:
God knows what it is darling..and Ive watched all the documentaries..bout smell and back to the monkeys..lol...whatever the secret...thank god its there...its why g/f's can say 'what the hell do you see in him'..lol and u can honestly answer 'buggered if i know'
but all those orangatang documentarys dont explain then why some women go...stuff that! and become lesbians...go figure?
hey baby girl, loved your blog. you know i am still working it all out, but hey, i am pretty proud of myself for getting this far... yes as gail says, often it is a 'buggered if i know thing', but if you really think about it, the scent of a man can be the thing that sways you (and i mean in a good way) well, thats me anyway. hehehe. Apart from that, yes a lovely smile is great, just be sure you mostly know what taht smile is about ~ i always hated smart arses who smirked (which is different from a smile!!!) Now get back to your life and bloody well enjoy it and get off this silly computer!!!
Mumma XXXx
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